{"id":122,"date":"2017-03-06T21:02:00","date_gmt":"2017-03-06T21:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/diane.eklund.abolins.net\/blog\/index.php\/2017\/03\/06\/the-spare-room-by-helen-garner-australia-2008\/"},"modified":"2019-12-31T08:15:41","modified_gmt":"2019-12-30T21:15:41","slug":"the-spare-room-by-helen-garner-australia-2008","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/diane.eklund.abolins.net\/blog\/the-spare-room-by-helen-garner-australia-2008\/","title":{"rendered":"The Spare Room by Helen Garner, Australia, 2008"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">This is a book about life and death, and about how the two are intricately intertwined. It is a book about friendship and love, frustration and anger and <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">the <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">complex <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">connection<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">s <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">between <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">these <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">emotions<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><i><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">The Spare Room <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">is <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">a book about <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">the necessity <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">of being able to <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">let go.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><a style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-MXO2IqyflKI\/WHbMskFCrRI\/AAAAAAAACgk\/2aBl4URiKTgKihYD61IzgpqTM4EgXZzcQCLcB\/s1600\/Spare_room_cover.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-MXO2IqyflKI\/WHbMskFCrRI\/AAAAAAAACgk\/2aBl4URiKTgKihYD61IzgpqTM4EgXZzcQCLcB\/s320\/Spare_room_cover.JPG\" width=\"213\" height=\"320\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">The \u2018I\u2019 of the book, Helen, <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">is in her mid-sixties and <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">lives in Melbourne. A friend, Nicole, <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">who is a stage-four cancer patient, moves in with Helen for three weeks while she is undergoing alternative cancer treatment. Initially, Helen is happy to be able to help her friend, but this emotion becomes jaded as she realizes that the treatment is bogus, that Nicole is refusing to accept the <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">ineptness of the alternative therapies and her own mortality, <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">and that the three-week stay is likely to be extended. Indefinitely<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">Moreover, <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">Helen is torn between love for her friend and frustration at having to be complicit in Nicole\u2019s <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">construction of positive outcomes and happy endings.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">Photo of Helen Garner from<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span> <\/span><\/i><a tabindex=\"0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com.au\/url?sa=i&amp;rct=j&amp;q=&amp;esrc=s&amp;source=images&amp;cd=&amp;cad=rja&amp;uact=8&amp;ved=0ahUKEwjXhffHq7vRAhWGGpQKHfNRARsQjB0IBg&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.textpublishing.com.au%2Fbooks%2Fthe-spare-room&amp;psig=AFQjCNGsFcuoqJiJNThCcZmTMZnEmYV92w&amp;ust=1484266960901663\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-noload=\"\" data-ved=\"0ahUKEwjXhffHq7vRAhWGGpQKHfNRARsQjB0IBg\"><span dir=\"ltr\">Text Publishing<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><span dir=\"ltr\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">Eventually the situation reaches a crisis point.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">Through her two main characters, Helen Garner presents the important ideas of life, death and friendship. She <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">lays out the facts and lets the reader make his\/her own decisions. It is a beautifully written book, and one that I definitely recommend to others.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div align=\"left\">\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><i><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'dejavu sans condensed' , sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\"><a style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-XLe5_nUzJpU\/WHbMsjRZawI\/AAAAAAAACgo\/CX1pkUojB7IlbNa6E5-VxvRJPap95uzOgCLcB\/s1600\/hqdefault.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-XLe5_nUzJpU\/WHbMsjRZawI\/AAAAAAAACgo\/CX1pkUojB7IlbNa6E5-VxvRJPap95uzOgCLcB\/s320\/hqdefault.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 200%; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"left\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; This is a book about life and death, and about how the two are intricately intertwined. It is a book about friendship and love, frustration and anger and the complex connections between these emotions. The Spare Room is a book about the necessity of being able to let go. 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